Sunday, July 18, 2010
Thursday, July 15, 2010
We are almost all packed and ready to go. The van will pick us up tomorrow from our house and take us up to JFK for our first leg of our trip to bring Saige home. We should be arriving in Kunming around 12:30 am local time on Sunday the 18th (Saxton's Birthday).
The next time you'll see a post from us, we will be in Kunming.
Friday, July 09, 2010
Wednesday, July 07, 2010
Keep looking at the blog. Once we start this portion of our journey, I will be updating as much as possible.
Monday, May 31, 2010
We had our "Travel Call" with our agency on Friday. This means we are close to traveling, right? Well, not exactly. We still have to get our Travel Authorization(TA), which is estimated to come to us in late June. Even after we get our TA, we still can not travel right away. Our agency is saying it has been taking three weeks to get an appointment at the US Consulate in Guangzhou due to the backlog during a recent world convention which was held in Guangzhou. I should of been paying attention, but I got lost at Consulate Appointment. If all plays out they way it looks like it could, we could be meeting our new addition in Kunming around the 26th of July. This would be four years and one week to the day we met Sawyer in the same city. We are very excited and now we are in a mad rush to get Saffi's passport and our Visas.
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Monday, March 29, 2010
Well, it has been awhile since I updated the blog and many people, mainly family members, have been asking me to get this thing updated. So, here is what's been going on over the last few months.
Saige is one step closer to coming home. We were logged into the CCAA on January 28th. So we should be getting our LOA here in the near future. We have been looking at furniture and playing with ideas for the girls' room. We haven't settled on anything, yet but we know at least there will be two beds. Figure that, two beds for two girls. Who would of thought? We hope to be traveling to bring Saige home in June or July. Depending on how it plays out, we could be in Kunming four years to the day we adopted Sawyer. Now that would be exciting.
Saffi continues to make bigger and bigger strides in school. She has been doing very well in Math and her English is coming along very nicely. A lot of people find it hard to believe that she just came home just over a year ago. It has truly been an amazing ride. Saffi also has been involved in Daisies. Thank goodness for her involvement in Daisies, otherwise I don't know how I would have got my Girl Scout Cookie fix this year if she wasn't. Just a couple of weeks ago, we had a Father/Daughter dance. I had a lot of fun trying to teach her the Hooky Poky and the Chicken Dance.
As for us parents, Shelby has been trying to get her yearly traveling done before we head off to China to bring Saige home. I have been working for the phone campany again as a contract engineer. The best thing about my job is my commute. From the bedroom, down the stairs and to m our den. It's awesome to be able to work from home.
Between the snow and the rain storms, we have been trying to build a garden in our back yard. We are pretty excited at trying to grow our own herbs, vegetables and fruits this year. Should be exciting.
Anyway, here is what you people really come here for, pictures. Enjoy.
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Sunday, December 27, 2009
First of all, we have got to be the absolute worst people at making, writing and sending out Christmas Cards. I would like to take this opportunity to say, sorry about that. Anyway, this one way to make sure everyone knows what has been going on over the last year in our super busy, sometimes crazy, household.
First up, what can we say about Sawyer, Saxton and Saffi beside how good these kids look in pictures? They are just as good, most of the time, in person too. It has been a very busy year for all three of them.
This past year, we have seen a tremendous amount of improvement in Sawyer's behavior growth. For instance, last year at this time, he was not saying a word. Due to the fact that he has been in intensive speech therapy four times a week, he now can say over 40 words, consistently. This is huge for us. He can now call us Mommy and Daddy and tell us what he wants, verbally. He still will use his speaking device, but only if he is not getting his point across with his words. We are loving hearing his sweet little voice on a daily basis. It is sweet music to our ears.
Saxton has also been doing really well in school. His teachers have been really impressed with his imagination and drawing skills. Almost everyday he comes home from school with a new picture of his family. Of course he will tell us who is who in the pictures because sometimes it is hard to tell the difference between the dogs and us. One of his favorite things to do is follow Saffi around. He will follow her from room to room and try to do everything she does. It can be really cute, sometimes. Health wise, he will have tubes put in his ears , for the forth time, on January 5th. Wish him luck!!
Sawyer's 5th Birthday picture from his daycare.
We celebrated Saffi's 8th Birthday on Christmas Eve with some friends. This was the forth time she blew out the candle since missed the first three time trying to find the camera.
Saxton and Saffi enjoying their first cup of hot chocolate on the train ride for Sawyer's birthday. 
Saige was born with tibial hemimelia and a missing digit on her right hand. Otherwise she is in perfect health. When she gets home, we will take her to Baltimore to see one of the leading doctors who specializes in limb differences, specifically, differences in the legs. We have already received her X-Rays and have sent them to this doctor who seems to be pretty optimistic about her treatment. This treatment could range from leg lengthening procedures to double amputation and prosthetics. But, of course, he will not know for sure until he sees her in person.Wednesday, December 09, 2009
As usual, he loved the train ride, but did not know what to think of Santa. (Santa not pictured).
We also went to the Thomas Store and let Sawyer pick out new pieces for his Thomas set. Of curse, he had to pick out the pieces that made the most noise. We wouldn't have it any other way.
Happy Birthday Sawyer. We hope you had a lot of fun.
Monday, October 26, 2009
I know you all are sick of hearing we have been too busy to blog, but we really have. Between me trying to work 40 hours plus a week, running the kids to school, speech or OT, I just can not find the time to keep up with the blog. Lately, I have found that many blogs we have followed have also fallen to the "too busy to blog" syndrome. Trust me, I understand why people stop blogging for months on end or all together. It's been getting crazier and crazier around her with Saffi joining the Daisies (Girl Scouts) and having Chinese School on Sundays. Sawyer has speech four days a week for an hour a day. Then he has OT for one day a week, soon to be two. Saxton stays home with me two days a week and has speech on both of those days. I need one of those machines Michael Keaton had in Multiplicity to duplicate myself so I can be in ten places at once. That would be great because it is about to get crazier around here.
Just over two weeks ago, we officially received word that we have our Pre-Approval for our little girl from Kunming, Saige. Now, we just need to finalize our Dossier and get it off to China. We are expecting to be able to bring Saige home in March or April. We can not wait for this very special addition to our clan. To make room for her to get around, we found a very nice, used Suburban with very low miles and at a very low cost. We are loving this vehicle.
Since our last post, Saffi got her cast off a week before school start and she is now in a brace for the next five months. Her foot is looking a lot better than when she came home. She is loving being able to run and jump again.
Shelby went over to Beijing, China on a business trip and got to do some site seeing. She saw the Great Wall, the Forbidden City and the Summer palace.
Here are some pictures from last week.
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Saxton Birthday was last Saturday. For his birthday, he got a guitar among other things. And being the smart kid he is, he decided to form his own rock band. Enjoy:
BTW-Saffi is doing great after her surgery. She should have her cast off within the next four to five weeks. Sawyer is making progress every day by talking more and more.
Update on number four. Last week we received x-rays of her legs and hand. Yesterday, we sent them to a doctor in Baltimore who specializes in tibial hemimelia. We should hear something soon on her diagnosis. Furthermore, we are one step away from getting our dossier ready to go to the agency. Cross your fingers, we are almost there.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Saffi had surgery today on her left foot. She is resting comfortably in the hospital and is in fairly good spirits (translation: she is sleeping a lot with the help of the pain medication). She is expected to be released tomorrow afternoon to come home and start her recovery. The poor little girl will need to stay off her feet and for eight weeks. Luckily, the doctor ordered a wheelchair to be delivered to our house.
So, since mommy is staying the night with Saffi, the boys and I are going to tear up the....house. It's a bachelors pad for the night, which means pizza and...juice boxes for our lucky boys. Yummy, Yummy!!!
Wednesday, June 03, 2009
This is a description from his behavioral specialist:
At the present time, Sawyer is able to navigate the front page of the Dynavox-V and select the subject and verb. He is also able to go to the category icon, select the category and the item. He is very proficient at navigating these five steps. This enables him to make simple three word phrases which include a subject, verb, and object. We are working on introducing him to adding adjectives to his phrases and also to make comments using helping and action verbs. Sawyer is most proficient with “I want ____” and “I have _____” statements. We are presently working on expanding his statements to use a variety of verbs and adjectives and also with using correct syntax order.
We are very excited that Sawyer now has a way to communicate his needs and want to us without getting frustrated. He has been using the Dynavox talking system at school and at home. It is amazing to watch him navigate through the pages of information on this system. We are very proud of our little man. You go Sawyer.
Monday, May 18, 2009
Well, actually we have a few things. First, Saffi will be having surgery to repair her left foot on June 24th. She is actually kind of excited to have this done, which is a big surprise to me. Unfortunately, this also means she will be in a cast all summer long. If anyone has spent a summer in the Mid-Atlantic states, you will know that that will not be very fun with the high humidity and heat. Thank God for air conditioning.
Next, Saxton will also be home all summer. We will be pulling him from daycare effective July 1st to spend time bonding with Saffi and Daddy.
Sawyer is POTTY TRAINED!!!! It has been a very long and difficult road to get Sawyer potty trained, but over the last week, he has had very few accidents while in his big boy pants. He will be in summer camp and have his program continued through the summer.
Finally, some have guessed, some have wished and some think we should be committed to a mental institution, but we are in the process for our forth and final child. She is a little girl from Kunming, Yunnan, China. For many of you who have watched this blog from the beginning, you may remember that this is the same orphanage as where Sawyer is from. Per CCAA guidelines, we can not give too many details until after we have received Pre-Approval (PA), but here is what I can tell you. She is a beautiful little girl with a bright smile and an adorable face. She looks a lot like Sawyer. She is currently in foster care and well taken care of. We are in the very early stages of the process and should be submitting our Letter of Intent (LOI) within the next couple of weeks. We will post pictures after we have received (PA).
Have a great week.
Sunday, April 26, 2009
Saxton is also saying more and more every day. I was talking to him yesterday and he was telling me a story that he just made up. While his speech is still not completely clear as day, he has been forming complete, multi-word sentences like he was an old pro at it.
Lately, we have been taking some hike through this little area of woods near our house. Sometimes the hike is only an hour. The day I took the following pictures, We made a wrong turn (Daddy not reading the map) and it took almost three hours. We were very surprised that the kids hardly even complained. They loved the ponds, the trees and the birds they saw. It was a great family experience. Enjoy the pictures and the little story.
One day, our hardy explorers wanted to go for a hike: The family drove to the woods near by and said, "this would be a great place for a hike." But the kids were unsure of what they were getting into.
A one hour hike, turned into a two hour hike, then a three hour hike all because Daddy forgot how to read a map. Saffi was scared and leaned to Sawyer for support:
The kids got scared and started to run back in the direction of the car as fast as they could.
But, Saxton said, "I am not scared, I will go forward and find our way out of this place."
Then realizing that they didn't know where the cars was, Sawyer climbed to the tallest tree to see over the forest to find our way home.
Saxton was happy that Sawyer found a way out of the forest and gave us a big smile.
Saffi was also delighted because she saw they way out with her binoculars. Then she joked with her brother that this is way women always ask for directions.
At the end of the day, our little heroes gave us one of the best presents ever, a nice group picture of the three of them in their new wonderland.
Friday, March 20, 2009
That's right, even though our son is non-verbal autistic, he can read!! Last Friday, during his speech class, the teacher accidentally dropped a flashcard on the floor. The flashcard landed on the floor with the word side up. Sawyer looked down at the card, which said ARM, and pointed to his arm while making a vocal approximation of the word arm. This is very exciting news to know that our 4 year old can sight read some words.
Saxton is doing really good after his tonsillectomy. I think the pain killers were a hit with him since he hardly ever complained about his throat hurting. He was out of school for almost two weeks and finally went back yesterday. All of his friends and teachers were very happy to see him return to class and he loved being there too.
We have been hearing nothing but good things from Saffi's school. Last week, a teacher said that she was helping other students in the class with their math homework and she was raising her hand to answer questions. Her English language is improving remarkably well, too. She has been speaking more and more clearer as the days go by. It is amazing to watch her speech develop at such a fast pace. You go girl!! It's been two months since her last breakdown at school, let cross our fingers that that was the last one.
Saffi has also been doing a lot of wonderful things while at home. When she gets home from school, she immediately does her homework and helps get the table ready for dinner. Both her and Saxton try to fight over who gets to wipe down the table. So I usually end up being the moderator and asking one to wipe the table and one to wipe the chairs. That makes them both very happy to see their accomplishment and I can not lie, me too.

